friendship 4ever? I dun think so…
February 17th, 2008 by hamster-123To think that some pple treat frens so good and being bkstab by them is the hardest thing u could ever listen and want to.
to think that by making a fren is good, then u r wrong!
having a fren may break up yr life, may break up yr marriage..
how it goes depends on both parties or even third party…
pple may not know wat is going on in yr life or even think that sometimes mayb they do. wat they no is only superficial.too clever or too stupid?chinese saying, kiang tio ho, mai ge kiang…so it means, smart will do, dun b too clever..
frends will definitely b a big part in life but 70% are fake, 25% depends on their mood and 5 % are just gundus who are like me to treat each and everyone real with real heart n mind to think for them, in rtn,clear shit,kana hurt…
so, story is, dun fall into frenship too much,which i alwas and will not change in it..duno why, trust pple too easily.
frends, wat is frens then?a definition of that?
by calling and sms non-stop to the person?by calling names behind yr back?by report everything that u do to the person?
well, think abt it, turn the other way round, wat if it is yr partner who is doing it behind yr back?how will u feel?well, i did mention that diffenet pple has got different level of needs,wants and understanding, so the level of hurt n pain may not be that much.
To me,it is a NO,NO!!Yes, u can flirt, u can fling, pls rem to wipe yr mouth when u r bk.. home, but as a fren of the victim or even as a fren to both parties, it is not good, as u can see waht is happening everyday in lifeand in work, that how will the other feel abt when they know this thing actually do happen and surrounds them everyday?
Calling special name, sms non-stop,report strength abt whereabout to the person, & note, it is to the so call best fren or close frens or good fren and not your wife ,husband, gf or bf okies..
shit and fuckers they are,slut,bitches and bastards they may b called.but do they know?NO! Bcos they are in the situation where they do not know wat they are doing and they do not care abt the other parties feelings.Do they?I doubt so.
Giving excuses in the end to salvage the situation wunt help much as they leave a hole or crack in the hearts and minds of idiots and victim. so wat if u r being forgiv?it can be forget.Memories will still be in there.
But come to think of it in the form of psychology,human being are scare of loneliness, they need companionship,so this things happens at workplace, schools,every where…so untimately, human relationship is so complex that it cannot be resolve and solve but it must be understood that this is human factor and life that it goes with.
Carrying on with life is the more precious than to see the idoits playing ard you,hurting those they proclaim they love,even right in their face they are doing it!
Dun talk abt punishment, I believe in retribtion,wat comes ard, goes ard.It may not be u, but yr future generation,or who knows, u r the person to commit this again or even the victim mayb the one who commit again.
This is one hell of true life experience that i notice and got of…
Want to know more? wait long long… wait till i got the mood to write all these life philosophy.Its been a long time since i start writing again. Pieces talent in writing…but got to have the mood to start of with.
thank you for yr patience in reading my nonsense…kekeke.
